Tina Fey quotes
Do your thing and don't care if they like it. 
In most cases being a good boss means hiring talented people and then getting out of their way. 
Don't waste your energy trying to educate or change opinions; go over, under, through, and opinions will change organically when you're the boss. Or they won't. Who cares? Do your thing, and don't care if they like it. 
Some people say, "Never let them see you cry." I say, if you're so mad you could just cry, then cry. It terrifies everyone.