“ Relationships are not about extracting happiness but about giving joy to the other. Short journeys can be made alone, long journeys need reliable and resilient Relationships. ”
Source: https://twitter.com/SadhguruJV/status/1228297690619842561
Categories: Happiness Marriage Relationship Joy
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