“ If you are forming relationships to seek happiness and trying to squeeze happiness out of somebody and that person is trying to squeeze happiness out of you, now this is going to be a painful relationship after some time ”
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjXCSSlKtkI
Categories: Happiness Relationship Pain
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